Imagine a haven for older people, not isolated, but nestled within an ordinary street, developing connections and companionship with neighbours and family. This wasn't just a dream; it was the revolutionary vision of Richard Carr-Gomm, the founder of The Abbeyfield Society.
Carr-Gomm believed in combating loneliness by keeping people connected by their communities. His mission, which continues to be our guiding principle, was to create friendly, welcoming houses, that are filled with warmth, companionship and a sense of belonging. Our residents are at the heart of everything we do - their wellbeing and happiness are paramount, and the emphasis on family spirit and shared activities continues to inspire Abbeyfield houses today.
"A scheme to bring lonely people together, in an ordinary house, in an ordinary street, getting support and creating an atmosphere of companionship from neighbours and family; returning to the community rather than moving away from it."
"If only we could have an Abbeyfield house on every street to which everyone could come… then everyone would be treated the same and share equally the kindness of the community around them."
- Richard Carr-Gomm
The Abbeyfield story
After a distinguished 16-year career in the Royal Berkshire Regiment and Coldstream Guards, Carr-Gomm became Britain's first male home help. During his visits, he found the older people he cared for wanted companionship, as he was often the only visitor in their day.
He used part of his army gratuity to buy a house in Bermondsey, East London in 1955, welcoming his first residents, Miss Saunders and Mr Halnan to share the home and create a place of companionship and security.
The success of the initial house was a springboard, with Carr-Gomm using the remaining gratuity funds to buy a second house. As word spread and donations flowed in, he acquired more houses, resulting in the formal establishment of The Abbeyfield Society in 1956.
By 1963, his vision had grown into a large network of over 100 homes across the UK, with homes in eight London boroughs and 15 other cities nationwide.
Carr-Gomm was a social reformer dedicated his life to helping alleviate loneliness. He was recognised for his work, with an OBE in 1985 and received Lifetime Achievement Awards from both The Beacon Fellowship and the Pride of Britain.
A home that feels like home
A central part of Carr-Gomm's vision was for residents to lead independent lives, remaining valued members of their existing communities. Even back then, residents were encouraged to personalise their spaces with their own photos and favourite belongings, residents were encouraged to maintain existing friendships and given plenty of opportunities to socialise with other residents. On top of this, dedicated staff helped to enrich residents' lives by organising activities and outings. Privacy was equally respected - residents could retreat to their own comfortable rooms whenever they desired.
Spreading kindness to help build a legacy
Carr-Gomm understood the effects of loneliness and actively sought to raise awareness and encouraged community involvement. The spirit of volunteering became another cornerstone of Abbeyfield, a tradition that continues today.
Abbeyfield today
For nearly 70 years, Abbeyfield has been at the core of social housing across the UK. Carr-Gomm's vision in the 1950s to combat loneliness remains as important today as ever.
Today, the Abbeyfield Living Society, part of Abbeyfield England, proudly run over 50 welcoming homes across England, where residents and our dedicated staff develop strong connections. Companionship and alleviating loneliness remain at the heart of our mission, ensuring our residents thrive in supportive and enriching communities.
At the core of Abbeyfield lies these principles:
- Alleviating loneliness: Over 55s are especially susceptible to isolation. Abbeyfield creates welcoming homes where residents can build friendships and experience fulfilling lives through supportive relationships with other residents, staff, volunteers and the community.
- Personalised care and support: Residents receive dedicated support in a secure and comfortable home setting. Abbeyfield offers a number of services tailored to individual needs, ranging from independent living to specialised dementia care.
- Volunteering spirit: Inspired by Carr-Gomm, countless volunteers have continued his mission of "making time for older people." Individuals of all backgrounds contribute their time and skills, from companionship and event support to crucial roles like kitchen staff and board members.
- At the heart of communities: Each Abbeyfield location is set in the heart of its local community. They actively recruit local volunteers and collaborate with other organisations to enrich the lives of residents. Residents are also encouraged to participate, creating a sense of purpose and offering opportunities for companionship and friendship.
Richard Carr-Gomm's greatest reward was undoubtedly the countless lives his kindness touched, and his legacy lives on through Abbeyfield, where residents find homes filled with support, a place to find a renewed sense of purpose, feel loved and be part of a family.
Volunteering at Abbeyfield
Abbeyfield was built on the kindness of volunteers. Just like our founder, you can combat loneliness by giving your time and companionship. Share a chat, help with activities, or simply be a friendly face. You'll make a world of difference to a resident, and gain new skills and friendships yourself.
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Abbeyfield's mission to alleviate loneliness for older people relies on generous supporters like you. Fundraising helps to fund activities and enrich lives. Every donation, big or small, helps to bring laughter, friendship and a sense of belonging. Join our amazing community of supporters and help us enrich older people's lives.
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